Children learn to tune out the word "no" very quickly. Instead of always using negative words when correcting behavior try using motivation statements. Examples:
Don't Run.....Walk, Use walking Feet, Stay with me, Hold my hand
Don't Touch.....Keep your hands down please, look with your eyes
No yelling.....Use a calm voice, use an inside voice
Don't stand on the couch.....sit on the couch
Don't Hit.....Hands down, use your words (give child examples of words to use)
Don't throw your truck.....Roll your truck on the floor
Stop splashing water.....keep water in the tub
No biting.....we only bite food
Keep the following in mind:
Tell the child what to do instead of what not to do
Clearly and simply state what you expect the child to do
Have age appropriate expectations
Use age appropriate language
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