Upcoming Parenting Presentations

March is Parent Awareness Month and April is Child Abuse Prevention Month. To celebrate these months, the Stop Child Abuse and Neglect Council is sponsoring a parent series called "Parenting is for a Lifetime."
During this time they will be offering the following parenting classes/presentations:

Thursday, March 10, 2011: Money Management
Presentation by: Love, INC of Allendale
Location: Love, INC of Allendale 11620 – 60th Avenue, Allendale, MI 49401
Time: 6:30pm to 8:30pm
Learn tips on stretching a dollar, saving money, developing a plan and making a family budget.
RSVP to Love, INC of Allendale: (616) 895-5683

Thursday, March 31, 2011: Raising Culturally Aware Youth
Presentation by: Lakeshore Ethnic Diversity Alliance.
Location: Second Reformed Church of Zeeland 225 East Central Ave, Zeeland, MI 49464
Time: 6pm to 8pm
Explore how unconscious assumptions can influence the way we interact with people and how that influences our youth.
RSVP to jleeson@pathwaysmi.org

Thursday, April 28, 2011: Darkness to Light
Presentation by: The Children’s Advocacy Center
Location: Hudsonville Reformed Church 3950 Highland Drive, Hudsonville
Time: 6pm to 8:30pm
Learn 7 steps to protecting your children. Darkness to Light's Stewards of Children is the only adult-focused child sexual abuse prevention program proven effective in increasing knowledge, improving attitudes and changing how we protect children from sexual abuse.
RSVP to Amy Dalman at adalman@cac-ottawa.org

Preparing for Preschool and Kindergarten

Are you planning to send your child to preschool or Kindergarten in the fall? If so, you may want to begin preparing early for the big adventure!

Physicals-Immunizations

Your child will need a physical and have all immunizations up to date.

Hearing & Vision Screening

Schools require that children entering Kindergarten are tested for Hearing and Vision. Sometimes this can be done by your physician but if not the Ottawa County Health Dept offers this service free of charge. Appointments are required. Call the following numbers to set up a time:

Grand Haven ...........................................(616) 846-8360

Holland ................................................... (616) 396-5266

Hudsonville ..............................................(616) 669-0040

Birth Certificate

In order to register, you will need a copy of your child’s birth certificate. If you do not have one, contact your local County Clerk.

Prepare Your Child

· Begin reading books about school, who they will meet, what happens, how they might be feeling

· Take time to visit the school (this spring) through an open house or making an
appointment with a current teacher

· Some districts offer a school bus ride with mom and dad shortly before school starts

· Work with your child on numbers, letters, taking turns,
using scissors, etc.

Book List

Books can teach so much in certain situations when parents don't have the right words. Here is a list of books that are helpful for certain emotional times during a child's preschool years:

Fears
Ira Sleeps Over by Bernard Webster
There's a Nightmare in my Closet by Mercer Mayer
Where the Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendak
There's An Alligator Under My Bed by Mercer Mayer
Will I have a Friend by Cohen, M
If You Listen by Charlotte Zolotow (Loneliness)
We'll Paint the Octopus Red by Stephanie Stuve-Bodeen

Anger/Loss
Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day by Judith Viorst
I Miss You Everyday by Simms Taback
When Sophie Gets Angry, Really Really Angry by Molly Bang
The Hating Book by Charlotte Zolotow
The Temper Tantrum Book by Preston, EM
The Tenth Good Thing About Barney by Judith Viorst
Are You My Mother by PD Eastman (Parental Loss)
Its Not Your Fault, Koko Bear by Vicki Lansky (Divorce)
The Dead Bird by Margaret Wise Brown
If You're Angry and You Know It by Cecily Kaiser

Friendship/Forgiveness/Bullying
The White Marble by Charlotte Zolotow
Homemade Love by Bell Hooks
Stop Picking on Me by Pat Thomas

Security, Love, Self Esteem
Goodnight Moon by Margaret Wise Brown
Runaway Bunny by Margaret Wise Brown
Kitten's First Full Moon by Kevin Henkes
My Love For You by Sharon Roth
Willie's Not the Hugging Kind by Joyce Barrett
The Kissing Hand by Audrey Penn
Ten, Nine, Eight by Molly Bang
Goodbye Daddy by Brigitte Weninger
Timothy Too by Charlotte Zolotow
I Like Me by Nancy Carlson

Uniqueness/Diversity
Many Colored Days by Dr Seuss
The Important Book by Margaret Wise Brown
Allie the Allergic Elephant: A Children's Story about Peanut Allegies by Nicole Smith
Gathering the Sun: An Alphabet in Spanish and English by Alma Flor Ada
Everybody Cooks Rice by Nora Dooley
Family by Isabell Monk (African American)
How Smudge Came by Nan Gregory (Down's Syndrome)
My Sister is Different by Betty Wright (Mental Retardation)
Lisa and Her Soundless World by Edna Levine (Hearing Impairment)
Its OK to be Different by Todd Parr
Things That Make you Feel Good, Things that Make You Feel Bad by Todd Parr

February 17-Playhouse Performers

Are your kids getting the winter blues? Need to get out and burn off some energy?

Check out the Playhouse Performers at Deanna's Playhouse on Thursday, February 17 from 6-7:30 p.m.

A team of "Storyographers" will provide entertainment and dancing. Kids can sit and listen or go and play depending on their age. 

Lemonjellos coffee will also be there for parents.

Cost: $3 per person

Deanna's Playhouse is located on the corner of Adams Street and Country Club Road in Holland.
11172 Adams St, Holland

Clean Up Clean Up

Helping children learn to clean up after themselves can be a tricky task. Here are a few ideas on motivating your little ones to have fun while they clean up:

• First off, don't surprise children with clean up time. Give them a 5 or 10 minute heads up. "In five minutes we need to start picking up"
• The mess can be overwhelming for toddlers and just asking them to help doesn't compute so be specific about what they should clean up. Put the crayons in this bin, put your dolls in the toybox, Etc.
• Put a timer on and see if they can get all the toys put away before the timer goes off. If you have more than one child give each an area that needs to be cleaned and see who can clean it faster. Winner get a sticker.
• Use puppets and have them pretend to eat the toys as they clean them up
• Play I Spy and have children try to guess what you are looking at. Once they find it they need to put it away.
• Use The Freeze song by Greg and Steve. Have kids clean up while the music plays but then they need to freeze when it stops.
• Make it fun. Don't show your frustration about the mess, simply make it a fun time and your kids will pick up on your attitude.

Learn the Signs, Act Early

If you have been involved in our Early On or Infant Development program, here is an opportunity to share your experience:

“ Learn the Signs. Act Early .” announces a new project to highlight the importance of early awareness and identification efforts through the experiences of individual families.

These spotlights will provide an opportunity to recognize individuals who demonstrate the importance of acting early through diverse voices and perspectives (family member, early educator, health care professional) and to develop a resource of ‘family stories’ that may be useful to state policy and advocacy activities and in presentations to a variety of audiences.

Over the past years, “Learn the Signs. Act Early.” Partner Spotlights have presented the work of dedicated partners and campaign champions who support the campaign goals of early awareness and identification. Champions for Families Spotlights will recognize individuals nominated by families. Each Spotlight will focus on the child and family, describing how the Champion helped the family learn the signs and act early .

Champions for Families nominations can be submitted by completing a simple nomination form. Information about Champions for Families and the nomination form are posted on the campaign website at www.cdc.gov/actearly as a downloadable PDF for fax or mail submission.

For more information contact Cheryl Rhodes at crhodes1@cdc.gov .

 

Upcoming Love and Logic Classes

Objectives: Learn simple, practical techniques that can help eliminate stress and arguments often associated with child discipline. Learn how to provide choices that empower children to be responsible and to make better choices.

Love and Logic Motto: LOVE allows children to grow through their mistakes, LOGIC allows children to learn from the consequences of their choices.
All classes are FREE!

Wednesdays: February 9-March 9, 2011
6:00-7:30 p.m.
Providence Church, 821 Ottawa Ave, Holland
Registration Required: Call Julie Leeson at Pathways (616) 396-2301 ext. 145

Wednesdays: March 2-30, 2011
6:30-8:00pm
Herrick District Library, Upper Level Activity Room
Registration Required: Call Julie Leeson at Pathways (616) 396-2301 ext. 145

Thursdays, January 27-February 24, 2011
6:00-7:30 p.m.
Second Reformed Church in Zeeland, 225 Central Ave, ZeelandRegistration Required: Call 616-772-2153